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Episode 4: BDSM & Kink with Sweet Geek Godess from kinkabuse.com

By Bedroom Spice on February 28, 2016


“… and there are a lot of misconceptions, ‘as a submissive I’ve gotta do everything my dominate tells me to do or I’m a failure’.  [consent] is an ongoing dialogue; consent in that respect is fluid.  It’s not necessarily cut in stone, 'once I give it it’s all she wrote', people need to understand it’s fluid.  And there’s cooperation, coming to in that negotiation ‘I want to do this, I don’t’ want to do that, I don’t like this’, and finding that common ground.“

 – Sweet Geek Godess

 

Sweet Geet Godess (@52weeksofkink)  from kinkabuse.com joined us this week to give the low down on D/S along with all the essential information every beginner should know before they explore the world of Kink and BDSM!

In this episode, we cover and handful of topics and stories.  Here’s a few things you’ll learn:

  • The key elements of a healthy relationship
  • The role of the 'dom' in dominance and submission (D/S) relationship
  • Plain English definitions of kink, leather, D/S, alternative lifestyle, BDSM and more
  • The most common misconception regarding BDSM and Kink
  • How to meet and connect with other people interested in Kink
  • Practical advice for couples looking to get started with Kink and BDSM

 Enjoy!

 

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Links & Toys Mentioned in the Episode!

 

Show Notes

  • Service Submissive, a definition? [1:45]
  • Kinkabuse.com how it started, and where it came from [3:45]
  • What to do if you’re brand new to BDSM [6:15]
  • What do you think is the most common misconception regarding BDSM and Kink? What are the elements of a healthy kink relationship? [8:30]
  • The role of the dominate (to seduce consent) [11:45]
  • Healthy Kink, Leather and Alternate Lifestyle relationships versus emotional abuse; how do you identify the difference? [13:15]
  • What do you think is the most common misconception regarding BDSM and Kink? Why? [19:45]
  • Communication, Respect, and Consent; the cornerstones of a healthy sexual relationship [26:00]
  • Fetlife.com and what you need to know about it [26:45]
  • The best sex advice someone has ever given you that you would like to share with listeners? [29:30]
  • What’s a great sex toy or prop that a couple should reach for if they want to get started with experimenting with Kink [31:32]

 

 


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